“The key to a man’s heart is his stomach” is a well-known Arabic proverb that essentially narrows down a woman’s duties to the kitchen. As degrading as this may be to women, one can’t ignore the fact the food essentially takes up the most important moments of the day and if you are acquainted to the Lebanese cuisine then these moments will become almost “sacred”
I recently got married and my wife moved with me to KSA and since she is in a “transitionary phase” she needed a hobby. Having lived on her own since she went to college and then joined the work forces right after graduation let’s just say that cooking was not her greatest feat. So and in order to fill up a part of her time my wife decided to take on cooking and started preparing our lunch home! Yes feel free to feel sorry for me for being a guinea pig.
In theory, my wife is a great cook because of her mother’s tips and instructions. And although she did some “training” before marriage, her mom was always there to save the day in case something went wrong so you can say so she has never tested her wings on her own.
On the eve of the first “training” day we struck a deal between us. My wife isn’t the biggest fan of tuna but if left without any other option she can accept it for a meal. The deal was as follows: whenever she started cooking a new and complex meal she would keep a tuna can on the sink in front of her. The “tuna can” served 2 purposes: 1- it was enough motivation for her not to fail because otherwise she will have to eat something she doesn’t like. 2- In case her project failed, there will always be a backup plan. Needless to say, the strategy is a fruitful one! Sure enough she sometimes forgets the salt or is stingy with the seasoning and spices but overall it can be considered a success.
The” Tuna Can” strategy can work for you as well in any business situation; in fact, it is a must. The purpose is to always push an individual or a business to try something new or try doing things “differently”. Being skilled at 1 thing will not last forever neither will it help you in all the situations. You may be extra good at something but if you fail to develop it or build a new skill you might fall off the grid. Take Nokia or Kodak for example who were not only good in their industries they were the leaders yet they painfully fell off of the peak in no time. Had they had the courage to challenge themselves and try new strategies they might have stayed in the front seats.
Any skill you might have will never blossom unless fully put to test; and although the most challenging part is moving out from the comfort zone you do not necessarily have to entirely go out of that zone and this is where the “tuna can” comes in. The purpose of your “tuna can” is to act as a cushion for you whenever you leave your zone to try something new yet it should be something you strongly dread. This back up strategy should be simple as well and not complicated in order to be a temporary “fix” and at the same time not to consume much of your efforts as you fall back to bounce forward again to a different strategy. For Example, Nokia could have used the Android OS on their phones for a period of time until they had finalized one of the 2 OS systems that they were trying to build in-house rather than being stubborn and falling short of materializing any of those 2.
As much as the “tuna can” meal is easy and fast to prepare so should be your back up strategy just squeeze some “lemon, olive oil and a pinch of salt” and off you go!
As a procurement professional, I started implementing the “tuna can” strategy to my approach with existing and potential suppliers, I have trained my team on it as well and the results have been encouraging! This was a much needed step as we steer towards 2017 in a very challenging economy that requires us to change from “this is how it has always been done” to “this might actually work!”
If you are reading this, then this means I have survived both my wife’s cooking and her feedback on this article! Take your time to find your “tuna can” although I warn you, your spouses might not be as forgiving as mine!